I looked at every article of clothing I owned this week. I was in for some surprises! I went through all of my drawers, my side of the closet, and my shoes, my accessories, and my jewelry. I didn’t think I had a lot of clothes, and I definitely didn’t think I was a hoarder, but going through them all changed my mind!
It wasn’t the first place that came to my mind when I thought about de-cluttering. No one sees it really except me. Tsh Oxenreider, the writer at Simple Mom, had several good reasons for starting with our wardrobes:
Taking care of ourselves, since we as women often forget to do that.
Setting an example for our families, and
Motivating ourselves for the rest of the challenges.
It was really motivating to see the pile of clothes that didn’t fit anymore, were stained and holey, or that just weren’t my color that were leaving my drawers and hangers for good. Why did I hang on to them for so long?!
The steps were as follows:
Make sure your clothes are clean and in one place.
Mark two boxes (I used bags) one as “Give” and one as “Toss.”
Take out all the contents of the drawers and clean them.
Try on your clothes, sorting them into piles: keep, maybe, give, and toss.
Re-assess your maybe pile and make some decisions.
Do the same for your shoes, jewelry, and accessories.
I started with my shirt drawer. Here are all the shirts I have that are not hanging in the closet. It’s hard to tell from this angle, but this drawer is really full. I has all of my short sleeved, tanks, and long sleeved shirts inside since here in AZ, I never know which I’ll need on a given day.
I learned the rolling shirts trick a long time ago when I shared my room with my very fashion conscious little sister who took up a lot of drawer space. You really can fit a lot more in when you roll your clothes.
Although I’d gone through all my clothes while packing them before we moved here, I realized that there were a lot of tops I hadn’t worn in a long, long time. Several didn’t fit me, but I hung on to them for sentimental reasons. Although I rarely ever wear tee-shirts, I kept my choir shirts, high school newspaper shirt, youth group shirt, and my fall play shirt.
I used Tsh’s suggestion to take a picture of yourself wearing the outfit. For some reason, seeing the picture helps you look at it objectively.
I know it’s backwards in the mirror, but it says “State Fair.” Best high school musical EVER. I took the most pictures of my sentimental shirts, and ended up keeping the ones that meant most to me, fit best, and that I actually did wear on occasion.
I put in the “Give” bag several of my shirts that I’ve had since I was a sophomore in high school. Now that I’m an old married woman, I need to dress the part!
I also got rid of tanks that were too small, shirts with holes, shirts that were uncomfortable, or didn’t look good on me. Here’s my finished drawer:
I know it looks just as full as before at this angle, but trust me, it’s got a lot more room and now holds only the clothes I actually like.
My bags were close to full already when I started on my jean’s drawer.
Here we have some of my pajamas, some of Brian’s shorts, my shorts, capris, and jeans, all mixed together. This was a hard drawer, mainly because hardly any of my jeans or shorts fit well. My jeans are generally ok after wearing them for a day to stretch them out, but when I first get them from the laundry, it’s painful to get them buttoned and zipped. It didn’t used to be that way.
So, do I keep them or give them? If I got rid of all the jeans and shorts that were uncomfortable, I would have one pair of jeans and two pairs of shorts left. So I decided to keep the ones I know will stretch out, at least just for now. Hopefully I’ll be able to replace them with comfy ones soon.
This has been a mess for a long time. I took everything out and refolded it, and counted it. I couldn’t believe my eyes! Guess how many pairs of underwear I had?
Yes. Fifty pairs of underwear, all different styles and colors. I found two pairs with stickers still on them, never worn. I had no idea that I’d collected so many! I threw away all the pairs with holes, stretched out elastic, or didn’t fit right.
I did the same for my socks and bras. I had several pairs of socks that I’d never worn, I guess I was saving them for a special occasion. I put several pairs in my give away pile and kept the ones I thought I’d actually wear.
I sorted my pajamas and got rid of random pants or old tanks that didn’t go with anything, and kept five matching pairs. Some are for really cold nights, and others are for really hot nights, so I think it’s a good number.
I can’t bring myself to post pictures of this drawer, so you’ll have to trust me when I say that it is much, much improved!
I haven’t bought these yet, but wouldn’t these be awesome to keep your underwear drawer organized?
It’s not a pretty sight. My scarves are piled up there, along with a couple sweatshirts, blankets, and purses. My shoes are kind of a mess too, and my clothes aren’t arranged in any order.
I found several outfits that hadn’t fit me for years hiding back there. They went into the “Give” bag. Some I had to try on a few times to come to a decision. The shoes were especially hard, because I love all my shoes, even the ones that don’t fit or are out of style. I had to be ruthless, and it was hard.
I had a difficult time finding a solution to the scarf problem too. I wanted them to be contained, but still visible. I finally used a hanger, just like I had been doing for my belts. It would be nice to get some hangers like these in there someday.
I had another problem: even after sorting through the clothes, they were really, really crowded. I solved this by putting all my lingerie in a VS bag on the top shelf, and folding my sweats and putting them on the floor. It’s not ideal, but it works for now.
What would be ideal, would be something like this for my lingerie: